Bachelor In Paradise Recap, Episode 3: Private Planes, Knee Sprains, and Delusional Lady Brains!

Welcome back to Bachelor In Paradise, Bachelor Babies, where some of the most beautiful people in America have gathered to live in a bunch of Slut Huts for the next 12 days and attempt to hook up find love in a tropical paradise! Yet, as this episode showed us, it’s not all paradise, you guys…for instance, this week everyone was forced to suffer through Chris Bukowski’s rat face/ bad jokes and Elise’s crazy-making delusional speeches. So, maybe consider yourself lucky?

Our 3rd episode picks up at the end of last week’s rose ceremony, where One Armed Sarah tells us why she picked Robert instead of Dylan - because she wants to get to know Robert better, and when it comes to Dylan, she is like, so not trying into get involved with all that (all WHAT, Sarah? Those smoldering eyes? That mysterious intensity? That chiseled bod? That rare yet hilarious sense of humor? STOP TALKIN’ TRASH ABOUT MY BABY!). 

Let us take a brief moment to remember the gorgeousness that was my baby Dylan.Graham, on his end, didn’t like Elise’s speech. He thought it was pretty classless to refuse Dylan’s hug (which, I mean…I probably would have done that, too. WTF is up with guys always wanting to hug a girl after he’s dumped her?) and then make Dylan stand there while she gave a rambling, incoherent speech everyone. AshLee agrees with Graham (because of course she does), but also, so does the rest of America, because that speech was CRAZYTOWN. 

Elise, for her part, is soooo happy that she gave the rose to Chris! And now she feels triumphant - she feels good knowing now that Dylan was not the guy for her, that he wasn’t ready. She really wants to fall in love with Chris now. Through the storm comes rainbow, and she wants Chris to be her rainbow!

Seriously, this girl would want to fall in love with a chipmunk if it looked at her right. 

In a case of the best foreshadowing ever, Michelle and Marquel are walking back from the ceremony to the Slut Huts and Michelle is telling us that “there’s nothing that could get in the way of us.” OH SNAP, BUT THERE IS! And her name is Danielle, the yoga girl from The Bachelor: Juan Pablo Has a Daughter. And of course she has a date card. Michelle practically pushes this girl to ask Marquel on the date - “just ask who you want to ask, don’t worry about who has a connection yet or not!” - and so, she does. Marquel, of course, accepts, telling us that it feels good that Danielle chose him, and that he’s going to take that run with it. OH HOW THE TIDES TURN ON BACHELOR ISLAND. He and Danielle go and sit outside and have basically the most boring conversation ever.

Graham and Michelle are walking on the beach the next morning, catching up Friendship Style. To sum up their (boring) conversation, basically Michelle feels dissed and dismissed by Marquel, and is starting to regret the way she dissed and dismissed Robert, so she’s gonna go see about maybe trying to win Robert back, because what guy doesn’t love being yanked around by a girl every time she feels like she just got dissed and dismissed by some other guy? Sounds like a great, solid plan!

Marquel and Danielle hop onto a plane. Danielle tells us that this could be the first date with the man she’s going to marry. Fucking COME ON, Bachelor ladies. Why do you ALWAYS do this shit? YOU ARE GETTING ON A PLANE WITH A GUY THAT YOU BARELY KNOW. The chances that he is NOT your husband and that you’ll never see him again are a zillion kabillion times greater than the chance that this is your soulmate. Fucking get some cool and stop being Disney Princess morons already. 

Back at the Slut Huts, Michelle is talking to Clare and Robert is talking to Graham. Clare assures Michelle that Robert is super into Michelle, and that she is so his type (how the fuck does CLARE know that? Yeah, Michelle, go ahead and take advice from someone who is pretty much the worst in the world when it comes to character judgement). Robert says some stuff to Graham about Michelle, but I’m not really paying attention because YAWN. 

Elise gets the date card, and is giddy at the thought of going on a date with Chris. Lifetime Original Movie AshLee, meanwhile, is pissed that her fake eyelashes are going to have to stay confined to a tropical beach for one more day. Clare is like, “Nobody cares about you so stop being a biznatch” which makes me laugh because I love that the two girls who are known for being blonde, big boobed, and delusional crazies basically hate each other for being exactly that. 

Elise goes to find Chris to ask him on a date. Chris is lying on the hammock, and as soon as he sees Elise running toward him, he’s like, “Yes.” She giggles and is like, “What? I haven’t even asked you yet!” Thankfully, this is the exact point where my Directv goes out due to a thunderstorm. 

Based on my Twitter feed, I can surmise during this power outage that these things happen:

Chris sprains his knee. HAHAHA. 
Danielle and Marquel go on their date and go swimming or something. Snore. 

My reception kicks back right as Michelle goes to talk to One Armed Sarah about the fact that she and Clare have decided to plan a double-date that night with Robert and Zach. I think it shows character that Michelle has the guts and heart to *tell* Sarah that she’s going to do this, but I also side with Sarah when she says that she feels a little like Michelle is swooping in, BECAUSE SHE IS.

Elise and Chris are on the other side of Mexico, on their date. Apparently everyone is taking private planes to the other side of Mexico this week. One of the best shots of the entire episode is of Elise, walking down the street with Chris, holding hands and talking her face off while Chris just smiles and pretends to listen. Her and her tight crop top and skirt sit down at a “romantic” table set for two, and Chris tells us that even though he’s in agony (because of your knee or because you’ve just had to endure an entire afternoon of listening to Elise talk?), Elise is super hot, so he can deal. “I like to talk and I feel like I’m doing a lot more listening than talking, which is fine,” Chris tells us - HAHAHAHAHA. Two of the most self-absorbed people in the world on a date together…so awesome. Elise gets a card, and tells us that she is ecstatic that it says “Elise and Chris” on the front of the card, because “our names look REALLY good together.” I swear to god, ANYTHING could be a sign for this girl that she’s meant to be with the guy she likes - someone could throw a stick at her head that reminds her of a guy’s penis and she’d be all, “See? This stick looks like his penis and it hit me in the head, so that means that my head and his penis should be together forever!” The card is a note from Chris that also contains two keys to two separate suites. Chris admits that he wants them to spend the night together (um, of course he does). Elise, surprisingly, tries to play it coy for once and tells him that she’d like to wait and see how they feel when they’re in the pool. 

How do they feel when they’re in the pool? Well, let’s see - Elise disrobes to reveal a green sequined bikini, and Chris basically kisses her and tries not to grab her boobs right then and there, and they’re in the pool for literally five seconds before Charmer Chris says, “Let’s go to the suite.” Elise enthuses that Chris is such a gentleman as we see her and Chris walk into the suite together. I’m not sure what her definition of a gentleman is? Also, I totally feel like Elise is that girl from 18th century Penny Dreadful novels who is so gullible and dumb that even after she gets bamboozled by some handsome rake and sold to a pirate captain to be the pirate ship’s whore, she’s still like, “But he only did it because he wants me to have an adventure!” 

Clare, Zach, Michelle, and Robert go on their double date, which I guess consists of maybe some food and sitting around a fire? I wasn’t paying that much attention, because again, yawn. One Armed Sarah tells us that she feels like some prettier, more well-put-together girls just swooped in on her and Robert…which I could totally relate to, because it does kind of remind you of that time in middle school when a new guy shows up to school and he’s super cute and actually really nice and by miraculous chance you guys become friends on the first day, but then by the end of the week he’s made friends with the guys on the football team so now all the popular girls want to go out with him and now you know that you’ll never get a shot with him because who’s going to turn down the effortless beautiful and naturally cool Kelly Fairbanks for some girl with thick glasses and braces who races home every day to watch reruns ofThe Highlander?! 

So I get it, One Armed Sarah. I am with you, and I get it. However, even her crying about it was kind of heartbreaking, she totally did it to herself - Dylan was all ready to choose her over everyone else in the house, and she was like, SEE YA, so I guess it’s time to lie down in that bed you made, Sarah. Even with only one arm, you still made that bed

Marquel and Danielle come back to the house from their date, and Michelle feels even more sure that she’s happy about closing the door on Marquel and focusing on Robert. Danielle digs Marquel and feels like this is just great, “but of course there’s always that little twist of other people coming in.”


Suddenly, everyone is like, “Who’s that girl with the slammin’ body?! At first I thought it might be Courtney Robertson, but instead it was Jackie! I love Jackie - she was on The Bachelor: Sean Loves Jesus, Texas, & You!, and she was one of the most naturally beautiful and sweetest girls on that season. She got kicked off when she went on a 2-on-1 with Temper Tantrum Tierra, one of the dumber moves that Sean has ever made, so I’m hoping that her second chance at Bachelor love ends up much better. 

Zach mentions that Jackie is one of the girls that he had been hoping would be here. And it just so happens that Jackie has a date card! She asks who’s paired up with whom, and Michelle tells her that they kind of have a rule - just pick who you want to pick, don’t ask questions. However, Clare TOTALLY does the thing where she leans her head on Zach’s shoulder and put her hand on his thigh, essentially making her mark on him, which is hilarious because it’s the most non-subtle Making My Mark So Don’t Pick Him move I’ve seen this entire season. Poor Zach - no sweet redheaded Jackie time for that one, I guess. 

In a twist that cements the fact that this episode is just going to go around and around in circles, Jackie asks Marquel on the date. Marquel, of course, says yes, because who would think about saying no after you’ve just come from what is supposedly a great date with someone else? Danielle was like, “To come back from our date, and to have Marquel say yes to another date, I don’t know how to feel right now.” Uh, may haps you and Michelle should go make a cocktail and talk some more about that. 

Marquel and Jackie take off on their date, on ANOTHER private plane. I love that producers aren’t even pretending to try anymore. It’s just like, “Snore, let’s just get them all on planes and fly them somewhere else.”

Back at Whore Island, AshLee humbly tells Danielle that she doesn’t “wanna waste someone else’s time wanting to like me, because I’m probably not going to like them.” Graham tells Michelle that he feels annoyed because he feels like doesn’t have any choice in the matter (whether he’s paired up with AshLee or not). For instance, AshLee is already talking about him meeting her dad. “Oh yeah, we’re gonna have hot babies,” we hear AshLee say.

Oy. Men of the earth, I feel like it’s my duty right here to tell you that not ALL women are like this. 

Just the really, really pretty ones with slammin’ bodies and huge boobs. 

Because holy crap, does AshLee have a slammin’ body. SLAMMIN’. She gets the date card and walks down the beach in this purple bikini to ask Graham on the date, and all I can think about is Googling her to find out what her fitness routine is. That girl is cray, but if I were a guy, I think I could probably put up with it for a while just see her hanging out on a beach for a week or two. 

Meanwhile, Marcus and Lacy go swimming and a bunch of people tells us that it feels like Lacy and Marcus have a real relationship, and then *they* tell us that they feel like they have a real relationship, and I just don’t give a shit so I start flipping through a magazine until The Pool Party For Two is over. 

Jackie and Marquel check out some temple ruins on their date (AGAIN, PRODUCERS…let’s go over the options for dates thus far on this show: 1) Romantic dinner on a rock or beach somewhere 2) Exploring temple ruins 3) Flying on a plane to some town to explore temple ruins and then have a romantic dinner. You guys are in MEXICO. You could do stuff with bullfighting, or riding dolphins, or making enchiladas, or weaving baskets, or dancing to mariachi bands. Let’s start planning these date ideas like champions, okay?). Marquel feels like Jackie could be the girl he’s “been waiting for this whole time.” Don’t get too comfortable, playa - Jackie is the kind of girl A LOT of guys have been waiting for this whole time.

Chris’ knee hurts. Which is great, because Elise is a caretaker, so she loves to take care of her man. Which means that she is going to take care of him ALL THE TIME. She will never leave his side! Pain is actually the turning point in their relationship, you guys (her words, not mine). “This moment is actually the reason why I came to paradise!” Really?! You didn’t come to paradise to swim in the ocean with hot guys or sit on the beach with hot guys or go on tropical dates with hot guys, but you came to sit on a bed with a so-so looking guy who’s moaning in pain from his sprained knee? Because that’s weird. But luckily, according to Elise, this all means that “Chris is my man now, forever.”


One Armed Sarah, for her part, tries to talk to Elise about not rushing into anything with Chris, and Elise is all, “yeah yeah.” Nice try, though, Sarah. Then we see Clare sobbing on the beach with Zach, telling him that she misses her dad. Oy. Glad you brought thatsubject up, eh, Zach? Good news is that now Clare feels even more bonded to you, which is just the thing you needed in order to gently extract yourself from Clare’s clutches so you could get to know Jackie better. Good going! 

It’s time for AshLee and Graham’s date, and whaddya know - they are ALSO hopping on a private plane and going to Campeche! They sit down to a nice romantic dinner and AshLee makes Graham uncomfortable right away by letting him know that she followed his Instagram to see what kind of man he is. Graham makes a zinger about AshLee’s breakdown per Clare’s date card during episode one…it was hilarious that he called her out on it, until AshLee says, “hashtag, embarrassing” - you are not allowed to make those jokes anymore, AshLee. No more “hashtag ___” jokes for you.

Graham is like, this is our first date, I just want to great time, I don’t want to put a lot of pressure on forever right now. AshLee bats her fake eyelashes and pretends to agree while she mentally plans the floral arrangements for their wedding. The infamous Suite Card arrives, and Graham makes a comment that he doesn’t feel comfortable sharing a room yet. AshLee, for her part, acts all demure about it, but we all know that she’s secretly dying for him to put it in (after she stealthily poked holes in the condom) so they can make “hot babies” (who the fuck says that?!). Since they’re not going to do the hibbity-dippity, they go out to a courtyard somewhere and shake it to a mariachi band. I gotta be honest, Graham’s right - all AshLee has to do is move her hips a couple inches in each direction and everyone in the room is happy. The camera person obviously agreed, because there were MANY shots of us looking UP at AshLee’s butt as she shook it to the band. You can tell that she’s doing her best to seduce Graham so she has a chance to “love and kiss on him” (why does she keep using that phrase? “Love on him”, “kiss on him”…it just sounds so dumb, coming from her), but props to Graham for thinking that it seems inappropriate for them to spend the night together. That’s a stand-up guy, that Graham. 

Cocktail hour! The guys have to carry Chris from the Slut Huts to the Cocktail hHut, and when he gets there he uses a walking stick to walk. HAHAHA, what a douche. Also, why THE FUCK does Marquel keep wearing dorky glasses to the ceremonies? STOP IT MARQUEL, YOU’RE MAKING WANT TO HATE YOU WHEN YOU WEAR THOSE DUMBASS GLASSES. 

One Armed Sarah and Robert talk about stuff, and then Robert goes to find Michelle to talk about stuff. Except that he doesn’t really actually wanna talk about stuff, and Michelle is all like, “Uh, I WANT to talk about stuff, so we’re GOING to talk about stuff.” She basically tells him that if he doesn’t give her a rose, he’s dead meat. Guys love that stuff, don’t they? Being forced to talk about stuff, and then being back into a corner and basically threatened with mental anguish if they don’t do what a girl wants them to do. I’m surprised that those tactics haven’t worked for Michelle in the past and that she has to go to Paradise Island to find love. 

The Rose Ceremony begins. Chris momentarily presses pause on whatever it is he’s been up to in paradise (lots of massages, probably. I also like to think that he’s taken up deep water fishing, and he does this on a yacht while some hot tropical lady suns herself on the deck, and then when the sun goes down he has these great parties with more hot tropical women - Elan’s invited, too, probably - and then Chris goes below deck with one or three of these women and they help him get over his divorce with their super delicious brown skin and soft “I don’t even have to pretend to know what you’re saying because your accent is so thick” Mexican voices, and then when he wakes up and gently extracts himself from the embrace of one or three of those naked hot tropical women, he goes out to drink some pina coladas and do some investigating about this one treasure map he found when he was snorkeling off the coast, and he does all of this while wearing a jaunty straw fedora and blasting Michael McDonald and Kenny Loggins from his aqua blue Mercedes convertible) 

The boys are giving out roses this time, and matches go as follows:

Zach - Clare. Jackie mentions something about liking Zach, but I don’t really catch it because I’m too busy reading my Bachelor Twitter feed.

Marcus - Lacy (“I’m seeing Marcus and Lacy fall in love right in front of my eyes,” Michelle tells us. I, for one, am not falling in love with Lacy’s hair and makeup game, though. Not a’tall)

Marquel - Jackie. Lacy tells us that Danielle’s face is devastating. Marquel says that it’s bittersweet, having to decide between two beautiful girls, so he just went with his heart. He probably would have sounded more sympathetic if he would have just said, “Yo, don’t hate the playa, hate the game!”

Robert - One Armed Sarah. YES. Score one for the underdog! Michelle starts crying. I didn’t want her to not get a rose, but it does kind of feel like she swooped in on Robert when it looked like Marquel was giving her the shaft, and that kind of sucks.

Chris - he calls Elise to him. “You put the biggest smile on my face,” he tells her, “and I can’t explain to you that you make me feel in a way I’ve never felt before. With that being said, I can’t give you this rose.” WTF?! “As you know I’m hurting a little bit here, and I’m ready to go home, but I want you to go with me. So I hope that you accept my invitation to come with me.” And of course Elise doesn’t even hesitate - not even for a moment, not even to just, you know, maybe contemplate that she’s only know this guy for, what, three days? WHAT IS THERE TO THINK ABOUT - before she tells him yes, of course.  

"There’s a storm and then comes a rainbow!" Elise tells us. "He doesn’t want to be away from me, he wants me to meet his family, he wants me to come with him, he looks extremely handsome and he smells amazing." I seriously love this girl’s stream of consciousness - ridiculously grandiose conclusions rounded out with, like, the dumbest details ever. 

So Chris stands with Elise and makes a speech about how he still has a rose, and how there is one person here who deserves true love more than anyone. Michelle starts crying, and so does everyone else, because we all know that he means Michelle (meanwhile, Danielle is just standing there, all “Yeah, cool, shut up already so I can hop this limo home.”). It’s literally the one good thing that Chris has ever done in his life. I’m actually surprised by it. 

I still hate him, though.

Chris and Elise leave together, the producers make this misty-lens montage of them throwing back a shot, running into the ocean, Elise wheeling Chris out of the hospital after he sprained his knee, etc, which is hilarious, because they obviously only had three days of material to work with and are totally not-so-subtly hammering that point in. 

Danielle leaves in the limo, covers her face with her hair, and says, “This wasn’t paradise, this was Marq Hell.”


Next week - two episodes over two consecutive nights! (WTF, ABC, stop messing with my schedule! I already have to carve out two hours on Monday night specifically for you, and now you’re making me do it on Tuesday, too? SOME PEOPLE IN AMERICA HAVE TO WORK. Not everyone can just sit around, waiting for you to call us up and tell us to pack our bikinis, we’re going to a tropical island for another shot of love. We’re not all Chris Bukowski, mmkay? Some of us have JOBS).  And it looks like crazy town has come to the island - Clare and AshLee fight about something, and then from what I can gather, Graham disses AshLee at the rose ceremony, so she disappears into the jungle and probably attempts to injure herself in some way to get his attention again. Like I said - she’s not called Lifetime Original Movie AshLee for nothin’. 

It’s gonna be GREAT! 

See you then, Bachelor Babies! 

The Premiere of Bachelor In Paradise: In Paradise, We’re All 80/40.


Welcome to the premiere of Bachelor In Paradise

In case you haven’t been keeping up with the newest show of the Bachelor franchise, basically it’s going to be a lot of beautiful people in swimsuits who all make out with each other and then cry a bunch about how hard it is to be in paradise with a bunch of beautiful people who are all making out with each other. 

Which basically means that this is going to be my most favorite show ever. 

The slutty season opens on a tropical island somewhere in Mexico (I think), where Chris Harrison stands on the beach at the bottom of a stone staircase, ready to greet the newest tramps of Bachelor Nation. First up is the most obvious choice, Crazy Clare. You might remember Clare from The Bachelor: Juan Pablo Has a Daughter, which she is most memorable for 1) Sleeping with Juan Pablo. A LOT. 2) Speaking about herself in the third person (“Does he really know who Clare is?”. 3) Telling off Juan Pablo during the Final Rose, which totally redeemed 1) and 2) because it was SO satisfying to see someone tell off the biggest douchebag in Bachelor. Clare tells Chris she is excited to find love during this experience. Because of course that’s totally going to happen for her, because these situations always seem to work out so well for her. 

Next up is Marcus, the most painfully emotional man on The Bachelorette: Andi is a Lawyer. I’m neutral about Marcus. His whole “I’m so in love with you after knowing you for three days” schtick was annoying to me during last season, and also…I don’t really think he’s as sweet and innocent as he was portrayed in the last season. But he looks good with his shirt off, so whatever, yeah?

One Armed Sarah is here! The sweetest and most vulnerable girl from The Bachelor: Sean Loves Jesus, Texas, & You! is back to find love in the most ego-crushing way possible. She used to feel really insecure about having one arm and meeting guys, but now that’s all changed! Sarah heads up to the cocktail party, locks eyes with Marcus, and immediately decides that this will be the guy who will heal her emotionally, especially since he can’t heal her physically. 

Because she only has one arm! Get it? 

Marquel from Andi’s season is heeeerrreee! I love that guy - he’s smart, he’s funny, he’s full of integrity, and he’s freaking hoooooot. Clare agrees, and I feel like she could really use some dark chocolate in her life. 
Daniella from The Bachelor: Sean Loves Jesus, Texas, & You arrives, looking like a low-grade cocktail waitress, still. You know, a funny thing happens after girls are on The Bachelor - it’s like their whole style game goes up fifteen notches. Not Daniella, though! Daniella ain’t gonna change that dye job for NOBODAAY! 

Graham from DeAnna’s season (I didn’t watch it, so I don’t have a nickname for it, but I can tell you that DeAnna is probably my least favorite Bachelorette, next to Desiree) is here. He’s cute. He arrives at the cocktail party, and Daniella definitely wants his D. 

Some girl named Lacy starts wandering down the beach, and everyone’s like, “Who the eff is Lacy?” I’m like that, too, until I remember that she got kicked off Juan Pablo’s season on the first freaking night. HAHAHAHA. All the guys want her V, though, so I’m pretty sure she’ll break that PR this time around. 

Ben S. from The Bachelorette: Desiree Grew Up Poor is here. I don’t remember him, because Desiree’s season was the most boring season ever, but apparently he’s an asshole? So that’ll be fun. 

The next arrivals are as follows, because this part is getting boring: Michelle K from Jake’s season of The Bachelor (I vaguely remember her for being crazy and leaving in a cloud of drama). Robert from The Bachelorette: Desiree Grew Up Poor. DYLAN! Dylan’s from Andi’s season - I love him so much. We’ll talk about it later. Elise from Juan Pablo’s season shows up wearing straight-up stilettos and has to literally hobble down the stone staircase, which is hilarious, because A. It’s a beach B. Chris literally just stands there, watching her and laughing. Elise sees Dylan and tells us that she feels love at first sight, and I’m like STEP OFF BITCH THAT MAN IS MINE. Luckily while she’s making love eyes at him he seems to be wondering where he can get another glass of wine. Lifetime Original Movie AshLee is the last one to arrive. Guess what, guys, - she came here for one reason, and one reason only: Graham. 

This isn’t going to end up badly at all for her, is it! 

Chris brings his fine man ass to the cocktail party and tells all the hos and bros to gather around so he can explain the rules of the game. It’s basically like Paradise Hotel, but with Bachelor contestants - everyone has to have enough of a connection with someone at the end of the week for that someone to want to keep them around. If no one wants to give them a rose, they’re kicked off that Paradise Island, STAT. 

Also, while he’s telling them this, one can’t help noticing that Robert already has his shirt off and that Lacy’s hair is wet and she’s in her bikini, so apparently she’s had a little dip in the ocean with him already - what a slut! 

Later that night, Marcus takes a long walk on the beach to think about his feelings. He’s still feeling stuff for Andi, even though she dropped him but cold and was like, “Yo. Take yo’ tears and BOUNCE!” Luckily, there’s an ocean right in front of him to wash away all his sorrows. Luckily x 100, Lacy just got done jumping into the ocean with Robert, but she also really likes Marcus, and oh yeah, she goes after what she wants, so she jumps into the Marcus, too. One Armed Sarah finds another way to be sad about stuff by telling us that she really likes Marcus, too, so seeing him standing in the ocean with Lacy makes her feel like she’s lost another limb. Robert sees Marcus and Lacy in the ocean and tells his bros, “Yo, he’s stealing my girl.” And Robert is NOT gonna play that, homie, so he goes and finds Lacy post-dip. “Hello, Miss I’ve been wet all day long,” he says. I laugh so hard I almost choke. YOU SAID IT, ROBERT. 

Lacy bats her eyes and asks if he’s into any of the other girls, and he’s like, “no, I’m just kind of into you.” “Really?!” she squeals. Oh man, Robert. You are SO gonna get played by this girl. 

Then we see Elise leading Dylan down to the ocean. I enjoy this, because it gives me a chance to see Dylan without his shirt off, and thus imagine him nekkid. Also, nice G-String tan line, Elise. They start kissing in the ocean, and I don’t get mad because I know that he doesn’t even know me yet and so he has no reason to be loyal and he’s probably dreaming of me abstractly while he’s kissing her, anyway, because we are meant to be together and I know that, even though we’re total, complete strangers, he has to know and feel that deep down (like down in his pants), even if he doesn’t know that that’s what he’s really feeling.  

Day 2! Breakfast with babes. AshLee is already going Lifetime Original Movie Stalker Mode on Graham. But don’t worry, kids - even though he’s the only reason she’s here and she feels like they have a total connection and that she’s sure that they have to end up together, she doesn’t want to be “overbearing.” 

You know, not overbearing as in getting all obsessive about someone you barely know and then dropping everything in your life to go to a tropical island in the hopes that you’ll get the chance to meet him in real life and make him fall in love with you, but overbearing in that she doesn’t want to make him uncomfortable by “kissing on him, loving on him” right that second.

Daniella, for her part, nails it - “When AshLee likes someone, she automatically thinks that they’re going to get married if he even halfway likes her.” Which is not a crazy psycho train of thought AT ALL. 

Date card comes, and it’s for Clare. The note says something about how nothing could “ruin” this date, and Clare goes cheerleader cray-cray and screams about how she had a dream about standing at the top of ruins. She asks Graham to go on the date with her. Surprised but pleasingly so, Graham says yes. And then laser beams shoot out of AshLee’s eyes, burning both Clare and Graham to a crisp right where they stand. 

Just kidding! Instead, AshLee climbs a spiral staircase of sadness, finally crying when she reaches the very top of it. Shutting herself into her room, we hear her talking to herself, “He’s going on the date. Not even for 24 hours. He couldn’t even be loyal for 24 hours.” Apparently her suitcase is her best friend and is always there for her when she needs to talk about her feelings, because this little speech about loyalty does not stop for a good 5 minutes, not even when Daniella comes in to the room to make sure AshLee hasn’t slashed her wrists yet. “In real life, I would never speak to him again,” she tell Daniella. “I came for him, everyone knows he’s into me. He’s the only normal person here besides me.” 

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Oh my god, there is no bounds to AshLee’s delusional Fatal Attraction particular piece of crazy. If her and Graham are the only normal people there, I am seriously concerned for Graham’s mental health. One Armed Sarah has thrown her one arm into the ring, too, stating that she also thinks AshLee is literally crazy. And you know if Sarah thinks someone is crazy, they are mentally fucking insane. 


I am sooooo not making this up. 

Clare notices that AshLee’s upset, which makes her upset, because Clare doesn’t want drama, you guys. She doesn’t want this! She didn’t come here for this! The raccoon just watches her a moment, feeling sad that he only wanted to find garbage and instead he found this basket case. It was literally one of the most amazing moments of television I’ve ever seen - it wasn’t even noon on the second day yet and two girls are already crying and crazy-talking to themselves. 

Eventually, Clare sits down with AshLee to talk to her about the date. AshLee is insistent that Graham had a choice to say no to the date…are you kidding me?! What guy in his right mind is going to say no to a tropical adventure with a blonde chick who sports a great rack and is just the right kind of crazy in that she’d be totally game with jumping into bed with you if you talk enough about the future in abstract enough terms for her to think that you’re including her in it? But AshLee still insists that Graham should have understood that once you take a walk on the beach with her, that you are now emotionally tied to her for life, so instead Clare offers to ask another guy to the date. Which…I mean. If it were me? I’d be like, “Get over it, I’m going on a hot date with the guy you like, and just for being a baby about it, now I’m totally going to do it with him on the top of those ruins. Cry about THAT.” But Clare is apparently much kinder/dumber than me, so she offers and AshLee is like, “Yeah, go do that, because all guys love it when you make them miserable and take away a rad chance at a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity from them in order to prove a point about how to treat you, so this is the perfect solution and everything is going to totally work out now.” 

So Clare goes off to find Graham to tell him that AshLee has already book their wedding venue and so it might not be appropriate for them to go on a date together, and then bounces off to ask Robert on a date, which Robert happily accepts. Graham goes to look for AshLee, who’s standing on the beach, staring forlornly at the horizon, obviously waiting for Graham to come and find her and reenact her favorite dramatic scene from a Lifetime Original Movie. He calls out to her. She ignores him at first. WHAT THE FUCK IS GOING ON IN THAT BRAIN IN HERS - YOU GUYS WEREN’T EVEN GOING OUT! THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO REASON TO BE DRAMATIC ABOUT THIS. It’s like AshLee’s emotional development got stuck back in the 7th grade, and she’s still pulling the junior high shit when it comes to boys - you should’ve just known what I was thinking, and because you didn’t, now I’m not talking to you! Finally, she turns around and decides to ask him what’s up (she literally did that - just turned around and was like, “what’s up?”, like she wasn’t just totally ignoring him a second ago). He tells her that the guys are making him paranoid about the fact that he hurt her feelings, and she’s basically like, “Yeah, you did, but I’d really like to make you suffer a little more for it, so let’s talk about it tomorrow.” Graham later tells us that it’s gone from Bachelor in Paradise to Paradise Lost. 


He tells us that now he’s uber uncomfortable, and you gotta feel bad for the guy. It’s the classic storyline of nice, unassuming guy who gets caught in the sights of a crazy stalker psycho chick. You know, like you see in Lifetime Original Movies. 

Only with AshLee, this movie is FOR REAL. 

Fast-forward to the date: Clare and Robert are exploring the temple ruins. Robert steps onto a mountain of fire ants, and within seconds he’s covered in fire ants. He throws off his backpack and rips off his shirt, which is kind of amazing, except for the fact that I’m sitting there and yelling at them to get the fuck out of there, because fire ants are always the first sign THAT THE TEMPLE IS CURSED AND SOMETHING DOESN’T WANT YOU THERE.

Or, that something could be me. This date is super boring. 

They climb to the top. Clare is literally speechless. We all sit there and enjoy that for a minute, but then it ends. Her and Robert take photos together, which apparently is hilarious, because then Clare tells us that “I want a man who gets my jokes, and wants to know that side of Clare,” and apparently Robert could be that person. I love it when Clare speaks in the third person - it’s so precious and dumb. 

Back at The Beach of Bimbos, Lacy has decided that since Robert is on the date with Clare, she should take advantage of this Robert-free time and go after Marcus. Seriously, this girl is kind of a predator, and I’m really enjoying the fact that she thinks that playing two boys at the same time is not going to blow up in her face. 

We all know that the producers love One Armed Sarah, so obviously she gets the second date card. She asks Marcus on the date, which upsets Lacy. Someone really needs to teach this girl that when you try to go after not one, but two of the big fish, someone is going to try to beat you to the lake and snag the prize for themselves. 

I just made a fishing metaphor. Proof positive that I’ve officially lived in the Northwoods for too damn long. 

Sarah and Marcus are on their date for two seconds before they strip down to their swimsuits, which I guess is probably going to define the entire season. They end up at this insane, gorgeous oasis, and I feel like one of the producers maybe doesn’t like Sarah all that much (Elan?) because in order to get into the oasis, they have to jump off of a high dive…and as everyone knows, One Armed Sarah is terrified of heights. Luckily, she has a hot guy to hold her hand and jump in with her, so all is well. They go up for another jump, and she tells Marcus that before they jump, she really wants him to kiss her. It’s like, the most awkward ask ever, but Marcus kisses her (even though I was kind of hoping that he would yell, “NO!” and then push her in before running out of there, because hilarious). Sarah feels like she just asked the cutest boy in high school to kiss her, so she feels pretty triumphant. Good for her! High five, Sarah! 

Robert comes back to the house and notices that Lacy looks “a little sad or tired or something” (look at this guy and his apt emotional readings), so they go to talk. She literally tries to make him feel bad for her by telling him that the two guys that she likes and is interested in both went on a date tonight. WHY THE FUCK would he care if you’re sad that the other guy you like went on a date? They go walk on the beach, and then sit and talk some more, and she asks him if he kissed Clare. He says no. She bats her eyes again and thinks about how she’s going to kiss Marcus later. 

LIMO IS COMING! Who’s here?! Whoever it is, they are wearing some GODAWFUL bell bottoms. Oh hey, it’s Michelle Money! Because of course it is. She arrives and announces that, along with her surprise arrival, she also has a date card. 

Nothing like arming the impostor with ammunition, yeah? In case you didn’t catch on already, there’s going to be a surprise arrival each week, to switch it all up in the house and add more dramz to the show. And you better believe that the producers have planned include the most drama-making people in the history of Bachelorland as the surprise arrivals. 

So Michelle pulls Graham aside to talk, and the camera pans to AshLee, and we all fully expect her head to explode into a billion pieces. Graham and Michelle talk about how they have history together and still care about each other, and there’s no real resolution to this conversation - so are they just going to leave it at that, or continue to pursue something together? In the morning, though, Michelle decides to ask Marquel out on the date. They go horseback riding and then go swimming in the beach. Yawn. 

Lacy gets a date card, and takes us through her indecision of whether to ask Robert or Marcus. “I’m 80/40.” 

Uh, WHAT? I think you mean 60/40, brainiac. You can’t do simple math but you think you’re gonna be successful at keeping two of the hottest guys in the house on the hook? This is going to be fun. 

In the end, she takes Robert on the date. They sit at a table outside under the stars, Robert tries not to ask WTF is going on with her hair, they eat dinner, and then go swimming. AGAIN, yawn. 

Marcus, for his part, has a long talk with my husband Dylan about his feelings for Lacy. Dylan gives him what seems to be very good advice over a glass of wine, but I’m not as concerned about what he’s saying as much as I am about staring at him and being all “Do me.” 

Rose Ceremony! AshLee feels like she’s in a good place with Graham and that he’s going to get a rose. She gets cocky about how the other girls are going to have to work hard to have conversations and make connections. I really want a shark to eat this girl at some point. Daniella and Ben talk about the fact that they really haven’t had a romantic connection with anyone yet, but that Ben should keep her because she’s one of the most fun people in the house. Everyone knows that Robert is going to give Lacy his rose, and Marcus is quiet about what he’s going to do with *his* rose. Marquel talks about how anything could happen with the rose ceremony - someone could go back on their word to someone else and totally change the game.

This is what we call “Foreshadowing.” 

The ceremony starts, Marquel picks up his rose, and Michelle K interrupts and announces that she’s eliminating herself. Chris Harrison is like, “Cool, you kinda crazy anyway, so get yo’ ass to the limo, gurrrrl.” IN the car, some production guy asks Michelle if she wants to find love. She says it will happen, and maybe it’s already happened. The guy asks her what she means, and she just gives him this “I don’t knooooow!” look. And this reminds everyone of the start of the show, when Chris made a comment at the cocktail party about how everyone here was single and Michelle was like, “Well, maybe.” Again, this is what we call “foreshadowing”: I will be a zillion, billion dollars that she started doing it with some production guy the moment she got to the island and Chris is going to find out and they’re all going to be in big trouble. 

Rose Ceremony match-ups are as follows: 
Marqual - Michelle
Graham - AshLee
Dylan - Elise (she’s getting crazy too - “I literally would have said I love you to Dylan already but it’s too soon. WTF.)
Robert - Clare
Ben - cue electronic music and him saying “this sucks”, which is, like, the most hilarious part of the entire show - Sarah

Poor cocktail waitress Daniella is cut. To be fair, she did have the best zingers of the show, so I’m kind of bummed that she was eliminated on the first week, but I’m also happy because this means that she now has time to get that hair done. 


I’m going to really, really love this show.